Arsenal manager Mikel Arteta has opened up about a personal regret that continues to affect him: his decision to move to Real Sociedad in 2004 in a misguided attempt to reunite his parents.
Arteta’s Spanish parents, Llle-Heilen and Kalju Aru, separated shortly after his 24th birthday. The news left Arteta heartbroken, and he sought to bridge the gap between his parents by joining Real Sociedad in La Liga.
Prior to his move to Spain, he had enjoyed two successful seasons with Rangers in Scotland. He established himself as a key player, contributing 13 goals and 3 assists in 60 appearances. Both Arteta and the Rangers fanbase cherished his time at the club.
However, his desire for family reconciliation outweighed his footballing success. With a heavy heart, he left Rangers for Sociedad.
Arteta’s Decision Filled with Regret
Unfortunately, Arteta’s sacrifice did not achieve the desired outcome. In a candid interview with BBC Sport, he admitted to feeling “awful” about what happened. He expressed guilt over prioritizing his parents’ relationship over his own career and questioned whether his decision contributed to the ultimate breakdown of their marriage.
According to The Mirror, “I felt so guilty,” he said. “I didn’t know if that was because of me and trying to pursue my dream. I feel very responsible for that. I never felt that it was the right call [to move back to Spain], but I had a duty and I wanted to reconnect my parents and my family again. It was a disaster. It never worked in that sense. I never felt connected in any moment.”
Arteta’s time at Real Sociedad was brief, lasting only six months. He eventually returned to the UK, joining Everton on loan in the January 2005 transfer window. The move became permanent the following summer.
Finding Connection and Success at Everton
In stark contrast to his experience in Spain, Arteta thrived at Everton. He spoke fondly of his immediate connection with the team, players, staff, and supporters. This positive environment reignited his passion for the game. “Straight away, you connect with the team; you connect with the players; you connect with the staff; you connect with the supporters and it flows,” he reflected. “And that feeling is needed.” He continued, “You feel confident, you feel excited every morning to get off your bed and go to training. I loved every minute.”
Arteta’s past may be filled with a difficult personal decision, but he now finds himself with an opportunity to create a new chapter for Arsenal. The Gunners are in the thick of the Premier League title race, needing a win over his former club Everton on the final day of the season to keep their championship hopes alive.
